I do not intend to be disrespectful to anyone here.....but,
I did defend her saying she has never been taught and has had to do it all on her own and would LOVE some guidance in that area. Met with stammer stammer, subject change from the other end. But, it just about killed me to make the teacher uncomfortable like that. I don't think I could say something like that to the principal.
I have trouble getting my head around stroking the teachers ego, for want of a better phrase. I fully understand the concept of catching more flies with honey than vinegar but at the end of the day if the teacher isn't doing what is best for your child why shouldn't you point that out to her. If she is unwilling to listen or be honest with you by all means take your concerns further.
I also understand that this is easier said than done. From my own personal experience, when advocating for my children, being concise and assertive was what worked, that way no one was left guessing. The school knew they stood as did I.
I am not teacher bashing here as I would expect nothing less of myself. Although I am not a teacher I do work in health, and advocacy, listening and honesty is a big part of my day.
Again, I apologise if this sounds harsh. Reading about your daughter made me feel so sad that I think the maternal monster took over.
