Thanks all for the advice.
Pierrepont is 30k a year and $30k x 2 after taxes is out of reach for us. But probably not far enough out of reach for us to qualify for significant aid. I think that one is a non-starter.
newmom21C, I am familiar with Pelham. Several years ago I happened to run across a list of the colleges and universities that the HS grads were going on to and I was very, very underwhelmed. Not that attending a "name" school is the end all, but it was just a very CONSISTENTLY mediocre list. But after reading your post I will look into it. Thank you.