Thanks for the responses. I am glad that I am able to take meetings with a grain of salt too, I know they don't know any better...but always still hold out hope that they are willing to learn. I also found it funny during the meeting that they asked if he was in sports or anything or if I had playdates for him. They were pleasantly surprised that I do have playdates with him and peers and don't keep him locked in a closet doing math all day and also surprised that I signed him up for T-Ball. They acted as if that would fix him, LOL. Apparently that is all it takes to make a gifted kid more normal...T-ball and playdates. So now you all the secret to normalcy, and knowing is half the battle : )
