I literally feel sick over it.
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I don't know what to do and NOBODY understands.
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I was trying to explain to DH last night ... and he just didn't get it.
I get that way too, it's our own OE's - we feel things so vividly. Plus it's disgusting that the needs of .5% of the population is totally invisible and unaccomidated.
Venting here is a great thing to do, and we totally understand. So glad we are here for you. And yes, it adds to our stress that we can't complain about this sort of thing with our local mom network.
DH will catch on ---- eventually. This is where time really helps. I've found out over the years that there are lots of ways to be gifted. Seeing into the future is one of my talents that DH totally doesn't get. He has party tricks that I can't fathom either. Make sure that DH gets lots of exposure to ND (normally developing) kids. But in the end, to some men, babies all look like 'babies' to their eye. I don't think that's what you are facing yet though.
Best Wishes,
Grinity
