Can you do something fun to destress and make her feel loved? When it gets negative or stressful with my son, my DH takes him skiing. He comes back like a different boy. A one on one trip to the ice cream shop just giving attention and not talking about tensions may help. Or sometimes it is good to see if they want to talk and just listen without judgement.

Hang in there and try to destress yourself too. Kids pick up on our vibes. Best of luck. I hope this helps.