Thank you, Colinsmum. I think that's all really great advice. I think it's a terrific idea to talk to ds about proving to me that his reason for not liking the school is about more than not wanting to work hard. We are really trying to focus on the positives and not allow ds to dwell on the negative aspects of school right now. He can tend to get bogged down and obsessive at times.
We are doing homework today, and it's been one giant meltdown after another, taking hours to do 1st grade homework! And it's all about the writing! He says he "can't" do it, but he really can. It just takes effort; he really HAS to master this. I think it will go a long way with him in terms of confidence and attitude if he masters this writing issue. I think it's time for some tough love on my part. : (
