You are not alone. My son was thought to be ADD before being identified. Tried meds, side effects. He has been thought to be every set of letters you can imagine. Currently he is going through the full battery of ability , achievement , ot, speech language test and counselor. i want a correct diagnosis. I have spent many nights crying trying to figure out how to help my son as well. The school can make you feel very guilty so be careful. My son is failing most subjects. I am in wait mode to see Dr. Amend in Feb. Hopefully he can get me in the right direction. Just stay on it and keep documentation. Seeing an outside counselor who said that I was going above and beyond to help my son let me rest easier.
