It's in our blood to see the lowest score as an area of weakness. I have to fight it, too. The perfectionist apple doesn't fall far from the tree, does it?
I think that if you feel/fear she's soaking up gender limitations, I'd recommend leaning into it a bit more. That to me is a different problem than a true lack of interest. That's a limitation she's placing on herself for the wrong reasons, IMHO, and that's problematic.
Signed,
Another Woman Who Could Have Gone Into Math, But Who Preferred English
