Do you find that she likes older kids? You might find some play dates for her with older kids. My DD is drawn to the older kids and if she has a choice she always picks them. The older the better. She has had me laughing numerous times when she spots some girls that are around 12 and makes a bee line for them. They find her so adorable at first and then they are shocked when she can carry on a conversation with them. It's the cutest thing to see then 2 yr old DD sitting on a bench talking in her normal verbal ability with a 12 year old.