Thanks so much, Grinity, for the logistical (LOL!) and sound parenting advice! It's true that I am having a hard time "advocating" - because I feel like they are looking at me like I am making these things up. I am working on that. I didn't advocate enough for my son, so I definitely don't want to make the same mistake twice. Since it is just pre-school, do you think I should just let it go ... not mention anything about her pretending to the teachers? I mean, she'll be starting an entire new year at Montesorri in the fall. I don't want to do anything that will put my daughter on the "spot"? There is a fine line between advocating and putting her in display, so to speak. This is where I am not getting that whole "mommy gut feeling" thing. Call it out in the open or not? Thanks again, Grinity! I really appreciate it!