At the risk of sounding too idealistic, you do have access to someone who can tell you that kind of thing - your DS. It's his education, after all, and if you can get him to be a reflective learner that's an enormous gift in its own right. I suggest telling him you need him to observe his learning, starting with what he can observe retrospectively about what has helped him learn in the past. I expect he'll have trouble separating out what he enjoyed from what helped him learn (they do overlap, but are not the same thing) but maybe if you direct him to think about times he's started off thinking something would be boring or hard and in fact it's turned out interesting...?
ColinsMum! ,
I love it! What a great suggestion. I think we should start a thread of people who asked their children this question and see the responses. I think we would all learn a lot about they way our children learn and how they may be alike in some ways and so different in others. We may even find out some good information to share with their teachers for those not being hsed. Great idea ColinsMum!
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