I have tried to make home learning "non traditional school learning" time. We would not refuse him something he wants to learn something. I usally follow his lead, but I have offered "more fun alternates" at times. I do want him to be a kid and have fun yet fulfill the learning desire. DH does explain Math concepts when requested. I get him library books and purposeful toys/games/activities on whatever he wants to learn.
Our school is more in favor of enrichment because they think he should learn things on a deeper level. They have development concerns with accelloration - rushing kids thru childhood. I have been of the opinion he just needs to learn something. It's not so important what the learning is about since he masters the regular stuff the first day, while peers are studying all week which gives him extra time. I question how much of his work is unneccessary repetions and too easy. I question that lack of challenge experience he is given without studying like his peers. He is able to do independent studies that are very loose and self driven. This has been helpful to give him something to be excited about at school. I would rather he didn't do stuff like balloon characters at school - that's for home. I would love it if he learned lego robotics.
I question When does it become more important to accelerate rather than enrich, if ever? Is it just a matter of following the child's lead? I really don't want to get to dramatic like I'm keeping from discovering the formula to save the world or something. I just want him to be happy. But, in Math, if a child has not been given enough opportunity they may not reach their potential, because most significant work is done in 20's. (I hope I'm remember facts correctly) I wonder if this is true in other areas. I also question effects of enhancing Math to his level to balance his day and not enhancing the rest. Wouldn't that make English and Science feel like not good subjects, despite potential for talent there too? I seem to be getting deeper into this. I think I am beginning to more understand the need for appropriate learning environment. Any thoughts?
Last edited by onthegomom; 11/16/09 08:30 AM.
