There are days when nothing reallys seems as good as it 'should be' and it drives DS13 and me crazy.
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... we have that 'outer directed perfectionists' and we will never be at a loss for things that irritate us.

This is completely off-topic, but my jaw is on the ground - I have never seen myself described so succinctly! I didn't know there was a name for me!
Does this mean that when I get irritated with myself for getting irritated at every little thing around me it's called "inner directed perfectionism"?
Oooh, goody, more research I can do!
