Here's a few ideas. Get her outside doing physical stuff like walks in the park, playground, bike riding, ect. Spend lots of time loving her up and one on one. She may benefit from some nonschool type learning approaches with classes from the Zoo, Museums, Library, Recreations centers, ect. Try to be relaxed and happy. Kids pick up on your vibes and that can be reflected in their behavior.

I have felt like I lost my children at times and made the situtation more than it was in my mind. (Please don't think I'm belittling your situation.) I have to remind myself to keep it small. My DS at 8, had a 10% test, while an A student. This did not mean he was totally lost as a student but at the time I felt like it. Really it just means we need to change something to make it better. I'm very passionate about my son's education and know it is very important to his self esteem.

Hug. Hang in there.

Last edited by onthegomom; 11/02/09 06:50 AM.