Hey Polly,
When you think about it, the only people who every really have to learn how to deal with a cranky 2 year old are the Parents and daycare Teachers, and maybe a sibling. And how would you like it if that 2 year old was you own physical size?
Even if these children do grow up and over the years become more well behaved, what is to say that you won't hate the other mom's by then? Or vice versa?
Perhaps invite the well behaved 2 over for a few playdates, or find a mixed age playgroup? One with some great older siblings would be nice!
((shrugs))
Grinity
