I should probably just hs forever! Nothing else seems like a decent option around here! I started reading TWTM, and I'm feeling much more confident. I think ds will be much more receptive to this style of teaching/learning. The book also gives us a specific starting point, so that's also helpful. Thanks again for the info. I'm not going to worry about testing until/if we decide to go back to school. Can you tell I'm still working on relaxing? ; )