I would guess that it depends on if they're part of his file yet. If they are then, under FERPA, you can go to the school and request to look at his file. If they aren't placing them in his file until after the meeting, then I'm not sure how that works, sorry!
I had the same anxiety issues after DS7's test. I thought it was going to be a few days and I walked around with my stomach in a knot, occasionally breaking out in a huge grin (when I was feeling optimistic) and other times feeling like I was going to cry. I am not a patient person at all.
Good luck!
