Thanks Dottie and CFK,
My DS4 is the one that whines and has meltdowns over silly stuff. DD has been the easy going girl that is sensitive but it has been somewhat easy to manage. The new moody attitude is so foreign to me that I don't know what to do.
It usually starts with little brother aggravating her and she gets frustrated and starts yelling and then crying. Or if DH asks her to do a chore she grunts and resist and then end in tears again. Before, she would have just got up and done the chore. What really concerns me is that when she gets frustrated and cries, it takes a long time to calm down and sort it out. Or maybe it just feels like a long time to me, LOL!
Jen