Great analogy Taminy! I don't know how many times I questioned myself "Who am I to question the teacher? After all, she's the one trained in teaching? Who am I to ask for more for my child or to have his educational needs met?" That's why I pulled my kids out of school. How can I ask for more for advanced reader when Johnny can't read? But then at times I get resentful b/c I pay school taxes just like everyone else and now in addition, I have to foot that bill and a HSing bill as well.
Belle - I can only imagine how difficult it is to teach in such an environment. Here with 24kids, the teacher has a full-time aide and I know it's still difficult for her to meet all the kids' needs. And the kids aren't even as challenging as what you had.
I know the year has been tough for you Belle. You can always vent to me, just send me a PM. 8-) But I do feel this board is the place to vent, and ask for support and ideas on how to move forward. As well as discussing more global issues which face education.
