Well, to be honest the grass is not much greener over here. They aren't doing anything systematic for her at school. I have found some things to help her with writing at home, which has helped her frustration with that.

We are working on keyboarding a lot, and when she does need to write longhand, I have special two-lined paper for her which helps her with letter size and placement.

I haven't really tackled the organization issue at all, except to work with her at home on keeping her room organized, etc. It's an uphill battle to say the least...

If you can afford it, I would recommend private psychological testing for learning disablities. It really helped me understand DD's specific needs better. Even if he doesn't have a disability, you will get a better idea of his strengths and weaknesses, and the psychologist should be able to help you figure out how to address those using a teaching style that suits your child's learning style.