Thanks for all the suggestions guys! DS has been waining between trying to change himself & seeming totally unprepared for potty training. I discussed with hubby and he's got a week off coming up so we're going to take a stab at the potty & see how things go.

The flushing everything down the toilet has continued (including his beloved toothbrush crazy so silly!) but we got him a wading pool so that seems to have satisfied his curiosity with water for a bit!