oli - I've had gifted denial for almost 6 years now... and even though I'm excited about my DS5.5 possibly being whole grade accelerated, I still often find things that make me think twice - whether it be his attitude, or the way he responds to something or like shellymos said with not paying attention to what we'd think as obvious.
And don't even ask me to "label" DD3.5! She can't read, and she doesn't seem quite as advanced as DS5.5 did at her age, but if I start trying to, then I'll talk myself out of putting her anywhere!
