If a full skip is out of the question you could try for a partial skip, it sounds like you may already be doing that. Are your DD's teachers on your side?
If your P still insist on in class accomodations, make sure he gives you a spefic detailed plan. Don't settle for vague answers!Insist on a detailed plan of action! Always write down your questions before the meeting and take notes while you are there. Good luck and lots of good vibes coming your way!