Is your daughter happy?
Does she have friends that she can be herself with?
Is she willing to do activities that might label her as a 'smarty'?
Is she willing to do activities that she isn't good at right away?
Does she have experiences outside of school that help her develop a good work ethic?
Does she have a hobby that she 'just loves'?
Sorry, but asking schools what they do for Gifted children isn't likely to get you very far, and in the defense of schools, each child is 'gifted' in their own way.
How did giftedness go for you and your family members, for her dad and his family members?
just things to think about...
grinity