I think the HS co-op is something we would use primarily for social reasons as well. I don't mind driving a ways either. It's par for the course where we live. We're looking for a secular environment in which he can make new buddies. Our HSing must be flexible and very child oriented so I'm not following a specific curriculum (I imagine some HS groups might be more curriculum based.)

I am also really trying to up the "friend time" like you suggested kimck. It's kind of an effort for a homebody/introvert like me, but this is not about me anyhow. Thankfully, DS has an incredible music experience. He takes guitar and drum lessons at a local music school that specializes in rock. Through the school he plays weekly in a rock band with 4 other 10-13 year old musicians--like interests and equally passionate about music.

Kriston, have you thought about becoming a counselor/therapist in your next life? It could be a real calling. You seem to have a gift for saying the right thing at the right time smile Thanks!

I so appreciate everyone's wise words--