I'm with you, MON. The point that most got me was phrased much as the thing that bothered delbows(as I understand it), much like the initial question in the Slate article: that I had a responsibility to the schools, regardless of what was good for my own kids.

That really got under my skin! I argued--vehemently, of course!--that the *schools* had a responsibility to educate my kids, and that if they couldn't do that, then I owed them not Thing One!!! Their losses were not my problem.

I'm a parent before all else, and so my child's welfare must come first. It's really just that simple.

Needless to say, she backed off on that point pretty fast! LOL!

Last edited by Kriston; 04/10/09 05:31 PM. Reason: Didn't want to be putting words in delbows mouth in case I was misunderstanding...

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