Originally Posted by Grinity
im not surprised that you are socially isolated or sick of having people mistake averages for laws of nature.

So well put.

TMJ, I am a newbie here, but I've found a place to air and share what truthfully concerns me as a parent. I do not have another safe place to do this right now.

When you love your child and devote so much energy to their well being, you really need a suppotive parenting community. I'd venture to say you also need a supportive pediatrician and psychologist.