LOL, my DD is only 21 months and she is already bossy. DS wasn't really like that too much though. When we listen to her music in the car, randomly she will not want me to sing and will yell "no" or just scream when I sing. She also will go back and forth requesting different CD's, then as soon as I put one in and start it...she cries and requests the other one. Of course I don't change it. I just ask her "do you want the music on or off" and she says "on" and huffs and puffs. She does this with movies too. She is quite opinionated.