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Ditto what you said smile

I can't begin to imagine dealing with DS * X!

Even now at almost 10 he drives me nuts on a regular basis with his high energy and low impulse control.

I can relate to how you feel when the days fun plans get lost in behavior problems. I never feel quite as low as when I have all sorts of fun thoughts planned and DS doesn't get with the program. I second the idea that to treat yourself a little smile