Why must my MIL be so confusing? smile I try to say what I mean without creating communication mysteries while at the same time being considerate of others' feelings. It's a hard balance, but it makes me genuine so if you ask me my opinion, you know I'm not just saying it to be nice. It frustrates me when others don't show me the same respect. That might sound rude, but I don't mean it that way. And I love my MIL, but she can be absolutely infuriating, especially when it comes to our children.