Debbie,
Wow - great meeting and great counter argument to the 'expect social and emotional problems' thing! Go Debbie!
The longing for a 'true friend' is so tough. Keep looking for extracurriculars that might send one your way. Chess Club, etc. I have seen some benifit from the kinds of things that your school is suggesting, so I hope that they will help here.
You may have to stand in for a 'friend' in some ways, while you wait for the kids to catch up. Which can be sweet in it's own way - though difficult in others.
Love and more Love,
Grinity
