Chris, our DD 24 mos. also does not tolerate a wet shirt or sticky fingers, but she says it matter-of-factly. "Oh. My shirt is wet. Change it, Mama." lol
Here is another question from both DH and me to you experts:
When we tried to show DD how to stack blocks, she would charge the tower thrashing her hands helter-skelter making all the blocks fly across the room, and laughing. This week she stacked 10 blocks, but it was without practice, since she's been in destrustion mode her whole life.
She clears everything off the kitchen table or the coffee table, throws all toys out of the crib, unloads all contents of drawers, suitcases, boxes, purses, laundry baskets, cupboards... getting the picture? What is this need to destroy and/or to wipe the slate clean? Just personality? Geesh.