"Oh dear, I'm so confused"

LOL - me too! But I find that I fret much better if I have more information to fret about. Got to keep busy.

But seriously, I think if we hadn't done it we'd still be questioning ourselves (I mean, even more than we do anyway). When we headed into testing we did it on the quiet in case nothing showed up - we thought he was ready for the next grade up mostly (thought certainly not only) because he was the oldest.