You know, DS7 was hating even recess in 1st grade. That was one of the reasons I knew things were really, really bad for him. He had been all about recess in K, when he was happy and challenged. But in 1st grade, not only was the teacher taking recess away from him far too often, but when he did get to play, he wasn't happy or having much fun.
So maybe if even recess stinks, it's absolutely time to make some sort of changes (if not before)? I think that's probably a good indicator that you cannot wait any longer.
