Alright, the calvary has arrived. I'm a hybrid, half spock, half RE(according to that goofy pyschological test site!). I think I can act as a translator of sorts.

I think this article is really good concerning little kids fibbing:

http://www2.scholastic.com/browse/article.jsp?id=702

I do believe it's TOTALLY normal to lie when you are four and holds TOTALLY different connotations for a child than for an adult or older child who is lying.
Apples and Oranges. smile

My kids totally fibbed at that age. Yes, correct them. Don't be overly concerned about it.

I also don't think it's a big deal that he admitted to crying because he got caught. He's too young to understand the moral implications of what he's done. Actually, it's a golden teaching moment...... wink