Hello. I am new to the message boards and just signed up today.
I have a DD14 who has been in gymnastics since she was 3. She has been in community programs, clubs and YMCA's in two different states. All have offered different styles and commitments. I think you need to find the program or class that fits the needs of your child. One good thing we have always done is to let it be her thing. We have talked about issues at home, but it is up to her to act on or ask for what she wants. In gymnastics, most coaches will identify "talent" and ability by level, not by age, once they are 5 or 6 years of age. Then the progression will usually take care of itself.
