My next stop is sengifted.org
Here is a link to their page of articles about the emotions of gifted kids. Interesting reading, but you may have to hunt around some to find what you are looking for:
http://www.sengifted.org/articles_social/index.shtml
http://www.sengifted.org/articles_counseling/index.shtml

I couldn't find any links to California professional on their site.
Trin



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