emoons -
I reccomend you enjoy her! She is certianly on a different developmental path. Throw out 'What to expect from your toddler' and buy or borrow 'Losing our minds, gifted children left behind.'
Keep documenting her development. Formal testing can wait a few years, unless you have some worries. But yes, children like her do exist, and it's perfectly normal, for her, to be like she is.
If you can do anything now to prepare yourself financially for homeschooling, there is a very real possibilty that you will be needing to homeschool for some or all of her educational years.
take care of yourself, and any friendships or husband,etcs. you may have - nurturing these children can be very draining, similar in some ways to having a speical needs child.
Smiles and welcome - so glad you found us,
grinity