And frankly, who the heck cares what she decided for her kid? I mean, her decision doesn't necessarily have to be the same as your decision, seeing as how you have two different kids...

This is the kind of parenting conversation I detest, regardless of whether it's about grade-skipping or breastfeeding into toddlerhood or where to buy kids' shoes. You can make one decision for your family and I can make another, yet both our choices can be valid and good. Neither one of us has to be wrong.

Grrr...

Kriston