Thankyou for your replies.
Cathy A - There are very few places/people to test GT kids near me. Also i'm not sure that he is really the right age to do so. I don't know if the school would accept the scores either, or if they did that they would do anything about as they believe they are doing all they can. I have offered to find them information but they tell that they have itand basically blow me off.
delbows - thankyou for passing on that advice

. We have been debating whether to remove him and HS till he is 7. He is not enthusiastic about school, other than about his 2 friends.
Austin - I haven't read those books, i think will go and buy Dr Ruf's book now as i have considered it for a while. I'm never considered the Gross one because i don't think that DS is exceptionally gifted.
thankyou again for your replies