I posted this in a thread that I realize is much older, so I'd like to throw this out there in hopes of getting some experienced advice. I just learned of this board from a Gifted Resource Teacher who suggested I read some posts after I sobbed in her office one day. I've read much I recognize already. I'm struggling with daycare/preschool options for a 2.5 year old. He appears gifted in many ways, but his development is quite uneven. Each time he has a cognitive leap, we see a series of emotional storms. This has led to teachers throwing out labels such as ODD and concerns about his emotional growth. I'm wondering if other parents have experienced the same? Right now I am emotionally drained from advocating for and defending his needs for independence and creativity. He loves stories and loves to pick out letters and sounds but hates to participate in "circle time." He screams if he's asked to transition to another activity if he hasn't finished what he's engrossed in doing. Above all, though, he's a sweet and caring boy who thrives in the right environment. I'd love to have some support on how to find the best fit for him and how to stay joyous about his creative gifts. \:\)
