CAMom,
thanks for opening my eyes! Wow there is so much I don't know about public schools - thank you.

Sad about the neighbor boys, but still, I think that there is a good chance that the 8's at the gifted private school will want to play less physical games and your DS5 might really enjoy them.

But I do agree that having to peg together a 'least worst alternative' setting leaves a lot to be desired.

My DS12 wasn't riding without training wheels until age 9. What helped the most was a Razor scooter that one of his agemate-friends got him for his birthday the year before.

Also for fine motor - I'm not sure if 5 is just plain too young, but sooner or later solving Rubix Cubes for speed is great for small motor.

Love and More Love,
Grinity

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