Many people have different expectations of boys and girls at the preschool age. Little girls sit and color, while boys run around like maniacs. Is she hyper-energy compared to other girls or compared to all children? Does she ever focus on an activity of your choosing (not her choosing)?

I have two boys, both high energy, but both as three-year-olds very able to focus. Not on coloring, but reading books, building together, board games.

I get that she's young, but if she's not ever able to focus on an activity of your choosing (cooking together? making jewelry? I don't know what girls like), I'd make an appointment.