Here's a virtual hug to you!
Your daughter has been through a lot in her 11 years and is making tremendous progress (in no small part because of what you've done). Try to enjoy that and not fret about the future (which is hard because you're used to doing so, with good reason, since you were trying to get answers).
It's impossible to know at this point what her options or callings will be -- they could be in areas neither of you can imagine now. There are so many examples in the world of people who have succeeded in their desired path despite real barriers. I have a feeling she's going to be one of them.
