Following. I am living this with YS DD10 this year, possibly because of poor school fit and insufficient accommodations. She has friends at school, but she says that she is bored. She has wound up in the nurse's office repeatedly with questionable illnesses and fights me every morning about why she needs to go to school. She is very angry that we make her go and is irritable when she comes home.
On the other hand, she is so strong-willed, I am not sure that I can home school her, either (the very thought frightens me).
Counseling...hmmm...only helps, I think, if said child is willing to be counseled. Also, not really sure what to make of a counselor who says..."well, she's about meeting the school right now where they are meeting her" (as the school has been very inflexible so far about meeting her needs).
This isn't easy. I am sorry you are going through this.
