Thank you for the responses thus far...

Dazed and Confused - I appreciate your support. It matters!
Cathy A - Both are considered part-time students at the state univ. and can change to full-time. My 10th grade son, wanting to take the Calc and Physics at the private school, was told at a meeting with the admissions person that he could start there in January. Neither would need the GED to attend.

My problem is that they both should be able to receive academic scholarships. In finishing her AA, my daughter will have 75% of her tuition paid for 2 years, and we hope she will qualify for other scholarships. My son is on a similar path, but, I think he too could get more than the one academic scholarship that pays for part of 2 years. Academic scholarships usually require that you graduate from a state high school. When homeschooling, many of the scholarships don't apply. I already have another in college who we help paying half of her tuition. I also have another in 8th grade. Scholarships matter to me. Money is tight.

Also, since we moved here last year, all of their new friends go to school with them. I hated moving them while in high school, but now they have adjusted and enjoy their friends and activities with them. I am feeling though that the school is giving me little choice on the matter. They are in school to learn.

Val - Thank you, thank you for the advice. I haven't approached the principal at all, which does seem like a logical next move. I need to make sure that everything is pleasant and in writing. I have been pleasant, but nothing in writing yet.

I know we don't have the syllabuses and assignments from CA, but I can do that for the university courses here and show them that Calc/Physics and college Eng do more than cover what is at the high school level. I'll see if I can get a copy of the college syllabuses, along with a professor's number to call. I've been told by the counselor, it has been this way for a while. Personally, I think it is to have the seats filled in the classroom which gives the school money.

OH GRandma - We live in UT now. I love it here, except for this mess.