Originally Posted by mahagogo5
I hope DD makes a pain of herself if things go bad, I'm worried she won't say anything.

You can coach her on what to do/say and do some role play using the language you'd prefer she use. In your shoes, I'd also tell my child she won't get in trouble with me if she uses the techniques I taught her, and that I will defend her to the teacher as needed if her self-advocacy doesn't do the job.

Good luck! Your daughter sounds lovely! I really hope things work out well for her.

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