What has worked at our house; swim team, piano/ music, 4H, and theater. Dd is very artsy, so she makes miniatures for her American Girl doll - her sister's old one actually. She makes miniatures for her friend's dolls, too.
I think things art/ building are good. Sports about "personal best" such as swimming, cross country, track and tennis worked for all of our kids. Music.
We did have dd read through some of the Smart Girl's guides. They've been very helpful to give her "rules". I do pre-screen for content.
What did not work- scouts (both boy and girl- we have both- but YMMV) and most team sports.
Last edited by Bean; 11/27/14 05:09 PM.