Thank you Cammom. I recently stumbled upon the Well Trained Mind accelerated learner board and it has been very helpful so far. I'm still overwhelmed but I feel that I'm making some progress.

To be completely honest, your #2 is my biggest concern as well. DS6 can drive me crazy some days. My plan right now is to start playin around with homeschooling, with a focus on math, this summer. That way I can get a feel for what it might be like as we move forward.

I've yet to find a good private option in our area, which is why I'm attempting homeschooling first.

This board has really been invaluable. I am so thankful for everyone's comments.