On the Math book, i bought the 5th grade book that her school used after they gave the slightest ok to a grade skip. I knew they were waffling. So, as soon as I heard anything that sounded like it could be interpreted to be a yes, I bought the curriculum that they use and got it over with and the next time they saw me, I had graded tests in hand.
Next year, we will use Art of Problem Solving. It seems to be the one that people on here are fond of and it looks like it will work well with my DD. To keep it fun over the summer, I will use Life of Fred and some worksheets to fill in some pre-Algebra gaps. I think there are 2-3 things that she hasn't learned at all yet before jumping into Algebra.